Rise Against Bullying

Going back to school can be stressful for many children especially if they are the victims of bullying.  According to Youth Ambassadors 4 Kids Club an organization dedicated to eliminating bullying a student across the United States is bullied seven minutes and an estimated 77% of students will experience some form of mental or physical bullying during their school years.

While the statistics are very worrisome to many we can all take measures  as parents and caregivers to help identify the signs of bullying and the anxiety it can induce so they can help their children manage through difficult situations.

Bullying

Recognizing Bullying

Bullying can take many forms and it no longer is limited to the classroom, lunchroom or playground for we have now cyberbullying through electronic outlets.   In addition bullying of any kind whether its hitting, threatening, intimidating, maliciously teasing and taunting, name calling, making sexual remarks, stealing or damaging personal belongings, and indirect attacks such as spreading rumors or getting others to exclude another student.    Dr.John Nixon of University of Phoenix College of Social Science stated that “Children and teenagers who are bullied suffer from anxiety, fear, withdrawal, low self-esteem, and poor concentration.   Recognizing the warning signs is the first step towards ending the behavior.”

Signs that your child may be a victim of bullying include:

  • Coming home with damaged or missing clothing or belongings
  • Unexplained injuries
  • Frequent complaints of headaches, stomach aches or feeling sick
  • changes in eating habits
  • loss of interest in friends or going to school
  • Mood and Behavior changes
  • Trouble sleeping and.or having frequent nightmares
  • Feelings of helplessness or not being good enough

What you can be if your child is bullied

Establishing a process of detecting, discussing and monitoring bullying can help in more effectively reaching a solution.  “It can be embarrassing for a child to admit that they are being bullied,” said Nixon. ” And many kids don’t tell parents about it because they are afraid of wither being blamed for the situation, or they are afraid if how the parents will react.”

Nixon offers some tips for what you can do:

  • Increase awareness- Parents must educate themselves on the sings of bullying and realize that they are  not alone.
  • Communicate- Ask children questions about how they slept or what they are looking forward to doing in school that day.   Their responses can provide a wealth of insight.
  • Gather more information- Ask teachers if they have noticed anything that would signal the child had been bullied.   Also, check a child’s text messages and Face book profile for signs of cyberbullying.
  • Develop an action plan- Put steps in place to monitor the signs of bullying to see if it persists and engage your child regularly to open up communication about the problem.
  • Follow through- It’s important to keep at it.  Be active to both spot the signs of bullying and discuss them with the child to work toward a solution.  If bullying persists take action.   Discuss the problem with the parents of the child who is bullying, if it is appropriate. Talk with your child’s teacher.  If the teacher is not responsive, escalate the discussion up to the principal or superintendent if necessary.

There are more participants in bullying scenarios than just the bully and the victim,”more often than not,” said Nixon, ” there are bystanders.  These are students who know what is going on and either encourage it in some way or sit back and do nothing.  We need more kids to stop being bystanders and take a stand against bullying.”

You can find additional information on University of Phoenix degree offerings by visiting http://www.Phoenix.edu and more resources for helping students deal with bullying at http://www.a4kclub.org, and http://www.stopbullying.gov.

 

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